Destinee Hooker Camps, Hacking, Skullduggery
Jul 25, 2015 1:21:01 GMT -5
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Post by sportsfun on Jul 25, 2015 1:21:01 GMT -5
I can usually joke about nearly anything but nothing about these jokes seem funny or original. It sounds as though she was in a very abusive, controlling, and scary situation but she managed to leave. Statistics show that women are in infinitely more danger for a period of time after they leave and she very well may be in survival mode. God only knows what she is contending with right now. Considering he sounds like the stereotypical domestic violence control freak he may have had a key logger secretly installed on her computer. Or she may be so damn traumatized she forgot to change her password. Whatever the case, she got out! She has left and the best action we can take is to be supportive and encouraging - not poke fun at what is another situation where he is attempting to exert control, take her money, and humiliate her. Instead of taking time to write jokes here why not take that same amount of time to send her an encouraging message via private message on FB? I have been very concerned about her and continue to be worried. She should be commended for having the courage to leave, particularly after this was made so public and while in the DV cycle she was defending him. I wish her safety first and foremost, as well as support from everyone in her personal life and the entire volleyball community. God knows she needs that far more than jokes that she may read and would obviously be another source of embarrassment and pain.
I don't really know how to respond to someone that responds in hashtags. You may not be aware of her father's post as to the abuse he says she has endured. It's quite alarming. While I already stated that I don't think anyone meant any harm with their jokes it is one of the few subjects that just aren't funny. Numerous posters agreed with me in their "likes" of the post and in even more in PM's. If you are not aware of what has gone on it's easily found. If you are aware and still think my post is an, #overreaction than I hope you do more to educate yourself. I wish her the best and hope she can find safety, peace of mind, and a way to eradicate that man from continuing to try to control and damage her life and reputation.