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Post by ineedajob on May 28, 2019 20:47:09 GMT -5
bigfan Reiterating this question. Can you provide an example of how this thread harms someone who is innocent? I have been here a long time and this is the most idiotic question I have ever read on Volleytalk. Accusing someone who is innocent of a sexual crime is horrendous. Tawana Bradley destroyed people with her nonsense. I think you mean Tawana Brawley. If so, I don’t see the connection between that hoax and a thread on a volleyball forum that links to a list of people banned or being investigated by SafeSport.
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Post by itsallrelative on May 29, 2019 5:58:38 GMT -5
I dislike that people who have finished their suspensions are still on it. If it isn’t a lifetime ban, shouldn’t they be removed?
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Post by bigfan on May 29, 2019 21:39:38 GMT -5
I dislike that people who have finished their suspensions are still on it. If it isn’t a lifetime ban, shouldn’t they be removed? Why is Allen Allen still on the list for?
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Post by Deleted on May 29, 2019 22:11:01 GMT -5
This list works as a way for us to see what’s happening with our coaches. This works the other way too, holding USAV accountable for their investigations and keeping their public better informed/updated. So, you can complain here on VT that so and so is on this list and the investigation is taking forever or contact your Region Chair to bug USAV. Better yet go to USA Volleyball and voice your concerns. It’s one thing for an organization to change and say they are making a change but it’s up to us, the people that pay membership dues to hold them to those changes. Even if they don’t give you an answer it’s enough to speak up just so they know we are paying attention and they better not eff it up.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 8, 2019 10:03:59 GMT -5
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Post by bigfan on Jun 8, 2019 11:08:33 GMT -5
It’s one thing for an organization to change and say they are making a change but it’s up to us, the people that pay membership dues to hold them to those changes. Even if they don’t give you an answer it’s enough to speak up just so they know we are paying attention and they better not eff it up. Why are complaining and crying on Volleytalk about this. You are the fool paying them membership dues.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 8, 2019 12:12:31 GMT -5
It’s one thing for an organization to change and say they are making a change but it’s up to us, the people that pay membership dues to hold them to those changes. Even if they don’t give you an answer it’s enough to speak up just so they know we are paying attention and they better not eff it up. Why are complaining and crying on Volleytalk about this. You are the fool paying them membership dues. I don't pay membership dues. I don't coach club. I can still hold them accountable. Someone else, I can't remember who had a different thread for coach misconduct, but I think that thread got locked. I'm simply doing the same thing without the editorial and now a link to USAV Safe Sport. Why the fuss? I think it's important. If you don't, then you can skip the thread. It will get buried, until someone does something dumb again and it finds it way into the news. In which case, I'll add it to the list.
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Post by sevb on Jun 8, 2019 21:02:54 GMT -5
It's without question important!! It shouldn't matter if you're a coach or a parent (the two most common posters here)... This information needs to stay out front...
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Post by Wolfgang on Jun 9, 2019 2:19:15 GMT -5
Looking over some of the above cases, I can sort of understand how a coach might get in trouble with a former player. They’ve kept in touch over the years or they’re FB friends and who knows, one thing leads to another which leads to some misunderstanding. Or there’s some craziness involved. Who knows. But what is baffling to me is when an adult engages in peeping Tom behavior, including the placement of hidden cameras. I don’t get how that could be thrilling. There must’ve been some sort of arrested development of normal urges. I don’t know.
If I suddenly acquired invisibility superpowers, for example, I would not storm into a girls locker room. My initial instinct is to run over to my friend’s house, move some chairs, remote controllers, and kitchen knives so that they look like they’re floating in the air, and then watch my friend completely lose his Shiite. My secondary instinct is to fight crime like Batman, except I’d have to do some research to find some white collar criminals, go to their office while they’re still there, and start moving staplers and pens around so they look like they’re levitating, and then watch these criminals lose their Shiite. Now, these activities would be fun.
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Post by beachdude on Jun 9, 2019 11:12:33 GMT -5
Looking over some of the above cases, I can sort of understand how a coach might get in trouble with a former player. They’ve kept in touch over the years or they’re FB friends and who knows, one thing leads to another which leads to some misunderstanding. Or there’s some craziness involved. Who knows. But what is baffling to me is when an adult engages in peeping Tom behavior, including the placement of hidden cameras. I don’t get how that could be thrilling. There must’ve been some sort of arrested development of normal urges. I don’t know. If I suddenly acquired invisibility superpowers, for example, I would not storm into a girls locker room. My initial instinct is to run over to my friend’s house, move some chairs, remote controllers, and kitchen knives so that they look like they’re floating in the air, and then watch my friend completely lose his Shiite. My secondary instinct is to fight crime like Batman, except I’d have to do some research to find some white collar criminals, go to their office while they’re still there, and start moving staplers and pens around so they look like they’re levitating, and then watch these criminals lose their Shiite. Now, these activities would be fun. They sell it online to more sadistic f*&%s. At JOs, what they should do is round up these convicted bastards, public execution. Pledge of allegiance. They play the tourney. Problem solved.
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Post by trainermch on Jun 9, 2019 14:09:18 GMT -5
Looking over some of the above cases, I can sort of understand how a coach might get in trouble with a former player. They’ve kept in touch over the years or they’re FB friends and who knows, one thing leads to another which leads to some misunderstanding. Or there’s some craziness involved. Who knows. But what is baffling to me is when an adult engages in peeping Tom behavior, including the placement of hidden cameras. I don’t get how that could be thrilling. There must’ve been some sort of arrested development of normal urges. I don’t know. If I suddenly acquired invisibility superpowers, for example, I would not storm into a girls locker room. My initial instinct is to run over to my friend’s house, move some chairs, remote controllers, and kitchen knives so that they look like they’re floating in the air, and then watch my friend completely lose his Shiite. My secondary instinct is to fight crime like Batman, except I’d have to do some research to find some white collar criminals, go to their office while they’re still there, and start moving staplers and pens around so they look like they’re levitating, and then watch these criminals lose their Shiite. Now, these activities would be fun. You and Patrick Swayze are so much alike. Carry on, @atomheartmother . Some will always like to equate the bearers of bad news with the perps. (aka pervs)
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Post by trainermch on Jun 17, 2019 10:04:14 GMT -5
"He seems more concerned for the consequences of the offending on himself and his family, rather than the impact it could have on the victim in the future," Ms Rositano said. Yep. Works across the board, for the most part.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 31, 2019 14:33:11 GMT -5
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Post by lovetennis7 on Dec 31, 2019 15:48:39 GMT -5
Thanks for sharing atomheart. This is very difficult to read. I find myself thinking how can I instill in my children (13 & 17 yo) they can come to me with anything - even if they are being threatened or blackmailed.
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