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Post by vballer08 on Sept 28, 2022 7:00:35 GMT -5
What I would give to be the Mike Pence fly in Nebraska coaching office today to see the Jaylen/Hunter scandal play out. Hopefully Cook’s couples counseling skills are as good as his coaching.
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Post by robtearle on Sept 28, 2022 7:27:36 GMT -5
The Devaney audio crew running the public address system should be commended for a couple of replays in the fifth set with great music lyrics that were quick, timely and at least gave you a smile and maybe a chuckle. The replay on the Knuckles serve for the first point that was ruled out. It brought a green card from Cook thinking the serve landed in. Quickly, the line from a song of my era says “tell me something good.” The second instance replay was a Nebraska point to make it 8-7 Nebraska on a hit ruled out by the front line attacker for OSU. The OSU head coach brought a green card saying a Nebraska touch by I believe Hord at middle. Sorry, for not remembering the names of the female OSU head coach or the attacker for OSU. Plus i am tired and to lazy to look it up, right now. So the lyric line for a older song by a pedestrian band quickly on the loud system says “let it be, let it be, etc”. Clap for the production crew. I made a comment on the Let It Be entry during the match. I agree. I thought it was pretty clever. Maybe it helped? It should have been a successful reversal as you can see a clear touch on the replay, but it was inconclusive on the cameras the replay people were working with. I've heard both songs used that way before. I don't remember specifics for Rufus's "Tell me Somethig Good", but the first time for "Let It Be" that I noticed or remember was Wisconsin playing at Purdue. It might be only last year, but it seems longer ago, so maybe 2019? The BTN announcers commented on it at the time. (Also "The Waiting" by Tom Petty gets played during challenges from time to time.)
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Post by azsker on Sept 28, 2022 7:36:11 GMT -5
What I would give to be the Mike Pence fly in Nebraska coaching office today to see the Jaylen/Hunter scandal play out. Hopefully Cook’s couples counseling skills are as good as his coaching. ...and yet it isn't even proven true.
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Post by SayonaraTachikara on Sept 28, 2022 7:37:51 GMT -5
How and why is a personal matter between two consenting adults a bad reflection on Nebraska or the athletic department? Are you suggesting the state of Nebraska, its people, the UNL athletic department, John Cook, Lindsey Peterson, our local media, the boosters, and/or nationwide fanbase coerced two adults, Kelly and Jaylen, to make a lawful, mutual, and personal decision with which you disagree? If any athletic department has a bad look in the B1G for illegal sexual activities (read: sex crimes), it would be Penn State and Michigan State. Actually, if there’s any coercion here, it’s going to be a result of your sensationalist post, which is unfortunately going to raise enough ire to force them to release public statements. Like, was this the purpose of your post? To force two consenting adults to release public apologies, enter rehab, pay a fine, and then provide community service? Are you using Volleytalk to push your boomer-style, pro-monogamy, and hetero-normative values? 🤮 I mean, how do you know Jaylen and Kelly weren’t in open relationships with their partners and moved on with their lives in new directions? What if either or both of their partners were cucks? Matters of affairs between consenting adults in the public spotlight should always remain off the table for discussion. (Truly, IDGAF about Clinton and Trump’s sex lives; we can judge their presidencies independent of their affairs.) I really hope neither Kelly nor Jaylen feels forced or compelled to make any kind of public statement as a result of your post. Staying mum will allow all parties to move forward with their lives in private and with dignity (unless they’re cucks). Your post solidified why I hardly check out this website anymore bc of the messiness and extraness—unless I get texts about something actually newsworthy on here about other programs. 😂😂 But your post is 🗑. Maybe it’s Jaylen’s ex fiancée or one of her friends/family members? That would be a pretty easy explanation for it. Secrets with a lot of bitterness attached often don’t stay secrets in the 21st century. Plenty of people could have an agenda around this thing. I’m all for consenting adults, but consenting adults in the positions Jaylen Reyes and Kelly Hunter are in would know what kind of consequences would occur if they were discovered. Coming in all high and mighty about how this should have been kept on the down low is not how humanity works, it’s not how it’s ever worked, and it’s not how it’s going to work in the future. The best way to keep things under wraps is to figure out who might have an agenda to spill the tea, and then make sure they’re given offers they can’t refuse, through bribery, manipulation, or threats. If that was done here, they missed someone. Or, it’s all made up. I seriously doubt that, but maybe. If this is true, this has to run pretty deep. To Sixpress's point, no one in their right mind would want this out in public, especially two engaged assistant coaches that are trying to establish credibility and respect on a daily basis with their team. While no one should want to discuss peoples personal business, it is different when to influencing figures who have control over a high performance team have comprimised their integrity with athletes. In my opinion, that is different and extremely irresponsible. Which begs the question, did this play out around the team as the poster suggests? I am guessing the team already knows about this. Which means Cook has known / knows about this and choose to sweep it under the rug. It is a big risk to sweep it under the rug as the danger would be for this news to break out at a critical time of the season. Or he hoped, this news makes it through the end of the season Jaylen/Kelly gets a job somewhere else and this all goes away. Either way the bigger question becomes who has the Cojones to ask Cook about it at the next presser?
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Post by cookiesncream on Sept 28, 2022 7:54:16 GMT -5
Maybe it’s Jaylen’s ex fiancée or one of her friends/family members? That would be a pretty easy explanation for it. Secrets with a lot of bitterness attached often don’t stay secrets in the 21st century. Plenty of people could have an agenda around this thing. I’m all for consenting adults, but consenting adults in the positions Jaylen Reyes and Kelly Hunter are in would know what kind of consequences would occur if they were discovered. Coming in all high and mighty about how this should have been kept on the down low is not how humanity works, it’s not how it’s ever worked, and it’s not how it’s going to work in the future. The best way to keep things under wraps is to figure out who might have an agenda to spill the tea, and then make sure they’re given offers they can’t refuse, through bribery, manipulation, or threats. If that was done here, they missed someone. Or, it’s all made up. I seriously doubt that, but maybe. If this is true, this has to run pretty deep. To Sixpress's point, no one in their right mind would want this out in public, especially two engaged assistant coaches that are trying to establish credibility and respect on a daily basis with their team. While no one should want to discuss peoples personal business, it is different when to influencing figures who have control over a high performance team have comprimised their integrity with athletes. In my opinion, that is different and extremely irresponsible. Which begs the question, did this play out around the team as the poster suggests? I am guessing the team already knows about this. Which means Cook has known / knows about this and choose to sweep it under the rug. It is a big risk to sweep it under the rug as the danger would be for this news to break out at a critical time of the season. Or he hoped, this news makes it through the end of the season Jaylen/Kelly gets a job somewhere else and this all goes away. Either way the bigger question becomes who has the Cojones to ask Cook about it at the next presser? THIS ^^^
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Post by GoGophs on Sept 28, 2022 8:08:42 GMT -5
Maybe it’s Jaylen’s ex fiancée or one of her friends/family members? That would be a pretty easy explanation for it. Secrets with a lot of bitterness attached often don’t stay secrets in the 21st century. Plenty of people could have an agenda around this thing. I’m all for consenting adults, but consenting adults in the positions Jaylen Reyes and Kelly Hunter are in would know what kind of consequences would occur if they were discovered. Coming in all high and mighty about how this should have been kept on the down low is not how humanity works, it’s not how it’s ever worked, and it’s not how it’s going to work in the future. The best way to keep things under wraps is to figure out who might have an agenda to spill the tea, and then make sure they’re given offers they can’t refuse, through bribery, manipulation, or threats. If that was done here, they missed someone. Or, it’s all made up. I seriously doubt that, but maybe. If this is true, this has to run pretty deep. To Sixpress's point, no one in their right mind would want this out in public, especially two engaged assistant coaches that are trying to establish credibility and respect on a daily basis with their team. While no one should want to discuss peoples personal business, it is different when to influencing figures who have control over a high performance team have comprimised their integrity with athletes. In my opinion, that is different and extremely irresponsible. Which begs the question, did this play out around the team as the poster suggests? I am guessing the team already knows about this. Which means Cook has known / knows about this and choose to sweep it under the rug. It is a big risk to sweep it under the rug as the danger would be for this news to break out at a critical time of the season. Or he hoped, this news makes it through the end of the season Jaylen/Kelly gets a job somewhere else and this all goes away. Either way the bigger question becomes who has the Cojones to ask Cook about it at the next presser? No way a group of college aged ladies who spend 75% of their time together and with their coaches would not be aware of an affair going on between coaches. There are no secrets when a group is that close. If this is true, whether it was said out loud or not, the whole team would be aware. (During my HS days, both volleyball and softball programs had affair scandals, volleyball was between 2 coaches and softball was between a player and coach… it was very obvious what was going on even if it wasn’t specifically addressed)
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Post by babybacksets on Sept 28, 2022 8:13:22 GMT -5
Where tf did this thread go oh mylanta 😱
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Post by radioactiveman on Sept 28, 2022 8:14:28 GMT -5
Which begs the question, did this play out around the team as the poster suggests? I am guessing the team already knows about this. Which means Cook has known / knows about this and choose to sweep it under the rug. It is a big risk to sweep it under the rug as the danger would be for this news to break out at a critical time of the season. Or he hoped, this news makes it through the end of the season Jaylen/Kelly gets a job somewhere else and this all goes away. This is beyond dumb. This may break the record for the most logical leaps in a single post on this site. But then again this is Volleytalk so probably not.
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Post by hipsterfilth on Sept 28, 2022 8:15:11 GMT -5
Which begs the question, did this play out around the team as the poster suggests? I am guessing the team already knows about this. Which means Cook has known / knows about this and choose to sweep it under the rug. It is a big risk to sweep it under the rug as the danger would be for this news to break out at a critical time of the season. Or he hoped, this news makes it through the end of the season Jaylen/Kelly gets a job somewhere else and this all goes away. This is beyond dumb. This may break the record for the most logical leaps in a single post on this site. But then again this is Volleytalk so probably not. ok, jaylen.
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Post by haterade on Sept 28, 2022 8:17:58 GMT -5
If this is true, this has to run pretty deep. To Sixpress's point, no one in their right mind would want this out in public, especially two engaged assistant coaches that are trying to establish credibility and respect on a daily basis with their team. While no one should want to discuss peoples personal business, it is different when to influencing figures who have control over a high performance team have comprimised their integrity with athletes. In my opinion, that is different and extremely irresponsible. Which begs the question, did this play out around the team as the poster suggests? I am guessing the team already knows about this. Which means Cook has known / knows about this and choose to sweep it under the rug. It is a big risk to sweep it under the rug as the danger would be for this news to break out at a critical time of the season. Or he hoped, this news makes it through the end of the season Jaylen/Kelly gets a job somewhere else and this all goes away. Either way the bigger question becomes who has the Cojones to ask Cook about it at the next presser? THIS ^^^ I’m sure this is exactly what you wanted. But you won’t get it. None of the press are dumb enough to come close to this based on a message board post. Whatever ax you have to grind is yours but at least own it. Hiding behind a keyboard and a fake username. “Confirmed with multiple sources”… that’s laughable. I’m sure Kelly and Jaylen, the only two people could confirm something like this, are dying to speak to it. Enjoy your moment it the spotlight trying to ruin people’s reputation.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 28, 2022 8:18:44 GMT -5
What I would give to be the Mike Pence fly in Nebraska coaching office today to see the Jaylen/Hunter scandal play out. Hopefully Cook’s couples counseling skills are as good as his coaching. ...and yet it isn't even proven true. I’ve heard it from multiple sources now too. It happened.
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Post by winesalot on Sept 28, 2022 8:31:50 GMT -5
...and yet it isn't even proven true. I’ve heard it from multiple sources now too. It happened. My love for both volleyball and soap operas is now wrapped up in a box with a big red bow.
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Post by dodger on Sept 28, 2022 8:36:37 GMT -5
It's likely this happened. But the notion that there's some sort of coverup is complete conjecture. Anyone who thinks that has never had to manage a staff. Unless they broke rules about employee relationships (which usually only hold for superior/subordinate relationships), the expectation that there's a public announcement about it or even some sort of public punishment is idiotic. Any manager would meet with the two parties privately, make sure it's clear that they continue their jobs in a professional manner, and move on. Even if there's some sort of punishment, it's done privately. It's no on else's business what that conversation is or what the punishment might be. I hear complaints all the time from staff when things are handled in private. They think there should be some public flogging which would be highly inappropriate. Often the private consequences will ultimately lead to people leaving but that's not for the public, or even the other employees to know about. In this case, whatever is handled should be handled in private and I highly doubt even the players will know what actually happened behind the closed doors of the office. Handling issues in appropriately in private is not a cover-up. Well said but i would add that anyone coaching a diverse group should have guidelines and penalty’s for operating outside guidelines: my thinking is that fraternizing between staff would be not tolerated. And would be reason to remove one or both from the staff for violating said standards.
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Post by azsker on Sept 28, 2022 9:20:28 GMT -5
...and yet it isn't even proven true. I’ve heard it from multiple sources now too. It happened. lol as if I even care who your sources are-your original one was on Volleytalk. and to go along with it, why does it matter? the only reason y'all are blowing this up to be WAY MORE than it needs to be is because it's Nebraska. Find a new obsession. they're grown adults. if it happened and it ended Jaylen's engagement-that sucks for her and I feel for her. But it's not like it's illegal. Let's not act like other coaching staffs don't have significant others. these are people's lives. does it really make everyone feel better to blow this stuff up? I mean, where does it get y'all?
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Post by knapplc on Sept 28, 2022 9:26:28 GMT -5
I’ve heard it from multiple sources now too. It happened. lol as if I even care who your sources are-your original one was on Volleytalk. and to go along with it, why does it matter? the only reason y'all are blowing this up to be WAY MORE than it needs to be is because it's Nebraska. Find a new obsession. they're grown adults. if it happened and it ended Jaylen's engagement-that sucks for her and I feel for her. But it's not like it's illegal. Let's not act like other coaching staffs don't have significant others. these are people's lives. does it really make everyone feel better to blow this stuff up? I mean, where does it get y'all? VT is fueled by gossip and hysteria. The fuel burns hotter when it's a few specific teams.
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